2020.09.21;一Sep21st(265):My Advice for Seeking Marriage





On Living Together (as Opposed to Marrying)

The following is from a draft of

Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life

(Estimated Read: 2 Minutes)


Consider the statement implicit in living together, prior to marriage: "You’re good enough to live with, and attractive enough for temporary sexual purposes, but I want to hold open the possibility of trading up if I’m fortunate enough to find someone preferable to you (someone sufficiently deluded to accept me as a partner, under such conditions)." Contrast that with "I am willing to stake my future on our joint integrity, and to risk building a life with you on that foundation." If you had to choose between two potential partners on the basis of those alternate explicitly stated principles—one abiding by the former; the other, the latter—whom would you choose?


My Advice for Young Men Seeking Marriage and Family







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